Now I am beginning to find that in my demographic it is hard to find a man that want commitment and relationship. It is very prevalent in the Caucasian community people go for relationships more often.
This is a question and rightfully so!
Why is coming together on one accord so hard? It seems so simple we meet and decide and then life happens!
So how to work from there or is there a chance?
Is it a joint effort? Seems like it would have to be since there are more than one agenda going on.
I know that it has been a long minute since I have been on here.
Were we better off when we did not have technology? So that is was not as easy just to reach out and touch someone. In today’s society we want thing now…so we have all these inventions that make now happen. But what toll has that take on our relationships?
I know that this is one that should be saved for mothers day but maybe i will revisit it then but have you ever thought of what you life would be like without your mother?
Funny cause tonight I sit her after going for a walk with my dog and I’m like u know what I’m blessed…many are like no….but I am…
Thought for tonight!
So there are many times that I have wondered why my life does not look as i have envisioned it. Well that is simple! I have not thought of or figured in all the obstacles that could happen!
Think about it! When you have a dream no one includes the messed up stuff that comes with that dream. They are just imagining making it to that goal.
So if you include the obstacles then you have a whole different outlook on the outcome. You are grateful for all the hard roads and for all the things that did not go as planned. Why?! Because with out them you would not be who you are!
So here I sit and I can say that without the hard roads I would be a different person and I like and love who I have become. No, everyday I do not have this outlook. As I have stated before I am human and I make mistakes but I do know I am better.