Were we better off when we did not have technology? So that is was not as easy just to reach out and touch someone. In today’s society we want thing now…so we have all these inventions that make now happen. But what toll has that take on our relationships?
Women ask me to marry them, men expect to be wooed and courted, men and women can stay in the house and in the same bed and not be faithful to each other! is this really what we wanted? Is all this instant gratification really good for us? i am taking the position of no! I want a man to court me not the other way around…and it is extremely funny that now everywhere carries flowers but not many men show up with one in hand when they are going to pick you up for this date. We have gotten lazy. Men and women use to write letters, make songs, climb trees, do whatever they needed to get the point across. Now you might get a flower and a hallmark card…if you don’t just get a sorry when something goes wrong or right for that matter.
We can and should do better! If you are scared MAN up and ask the girl, if you mess up MAN up and take responsibity. I am by no mean placing all the blame on men but I will say that it has been a hot minute since a man has asked for my presence to do something.
Are we better waiting on men to take the lead or will you just get passed by and that woman that is not interested in roles that will take what you have been so patiently waiting on.
Quandary of the centuries I am guessing but there has to be an answer we are smart people!